Posts Tagged ‘relationships’

How to Identify a Narcissist on Dating Apps.

Original content by Ashley Berges It is important to be able to identify narcissists on dating apps.  6 Indications that the Person on the Dating App is a Narcissist. The first indication is a sneaky one. The person will claim to be kind, compassionate, and caring. We all want someone to possess all those traits, […]

The Complex Relationship Between Our Parent’s Marriage and Our Marriage

Original content by Ashley Berges It does not matter whether you have been married for 5 years or 25 years. Most likely we are unaware of where certain patterns in our marriage have come from. We do not realize how our parent’s marriage impacts our marriage. Some habits we picked up growing up are unintentionally […]

Why do I Attract Narcissists?

Original content by Ashley Berges Does it feel like you always seem to attract a person with narcissistic tendencies? What is it about you that attracts narcissists? We need to know why this is happening and begin to understand what we can do to change it. There are several reasons why we are narcissist magnets.  […]

The Link Between Self-Sabotage and Toxic Relationships

Original content by Ashley Berges When we find ourselves in toxic relationships there is one missing element. The missing element is the building block for everything powerful in our lives. It is the thing that changes our lives forever. Once we grasp it, have it, and hold it, we will not accept toxicity in our […]

The Reasons Why Positive Relationships End with Someone with BPD

Original content by Ashley Berges Someone with the signs and symptoms of BPD often participates in impulsive and risky behaviors. Ending positive relationships is something that someone with BPD tendencies is likely to do. Let’s look into why they do this and dig deep into the concept.  Why does someone with BPD tendencies have a […]

Uncovering the Root Causes of Why We Self-Sabotage

Original content by Ashley Berges Do you know what self-sabotage is, and if you do, is it normal to self-sabotage?  Self-sabotage is when we undermine ourselves. It is when we make choices, even if it is choosing something that is not necessarily good for us. Whatever we chose ends up destroying us physically, emotionally, or […]

What You Can Do Right Now For Others See Your True Value

Original content by Ashley Berges Are you being devalued by others in your life? Do you feel as though your goals and dreams are put on the back burner? Does it feel like your life has stagnated and have a lot of toxic relationships in your life? Let’s look at some answers to how the […]

What Happens When Relationship Roles Morph into Something Else?

Original content by Ashley Berges In order to fully understand our relationships, we must completely understand the role we play within the relationship. Often, we begin a relationship in one specific role, and over time it changes and morphs into something completely different. We are unaware of this change because we are so close to […]

Don’t Fear the Triggers, Learn How to Overcome Them

Original content by Ashley Berges When we get triggered we may feel sad, upset, angry, and overwhelmed. We are unable to see the situation in any way but painful. What if we could learn something from our triggers? What if our triggers were seen as opportunities?  When we are triggered things usually get out of […]

Identify the Patterns of Overt and Covert Self-Sabotaging Behavior in Your Life

Original content by Ashley Berges Did you know that your most important friendship is with yourself? Often, we believe that the most important friendship is with others. We do whatever we can to make others happy. We must learn that the most important friendship is with ourselves and work at it to make it a […]

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