Many of us find ourselves deeply invested in helping someone else, a spouse, a family member, or a friend, who clearly needs support, whether that’s therapy, coaching, or some form of personal work. You may have gone out of your way to research options, make calls, set appointments, and encourage them every step of the way, only to find that nothing really changes. The same problems keep showing up, the same patterns repeat, and the chaos never seems to settle. That’s when it becomes critical to ask a powerful and honest question: Do they actually...