301: It’s a trap! We look outside of ourself for value. Instead of looking for our unique purpose, we find a love partner that we make our purpose. If that’s not enough we have children and make them our new purpose. Eventually we wake up one day and freak out. We feel lost, experience a mid-life crisis, and often get divorced because we feel as though we don’t love our spouse anymore, however that’s usually not true, find out why!