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Who’s in your way?

Recently, I came across a song by Calvin Harris that exemplifies the way many of us think in our day-to-day life. Many of us feel as though we’re being held back, we can’t do what we want to do in our life, and we’re waiting for that time when all of the doors open, the walls […]

Education is the only weapon to remove gender imbalance.

Education is the only weapon to remove gender imbalance and the Patel Community is on the mission to empower girls. By: Dhara Patel There are roughly 5 million Patel living in Gujarat, India. They are known for their unity and their initiative for social development. The family name, “Patel” is one of the most commonly […]

Toxic Relationships, Codependency, and a Loss of Identity.

Most of us were raised to believe that our value is derived from helping others, what we do for others, and what we give them. Our value is not directly related to what we do, our value comes from within. Our parents taught us a flawed way of thinking based on the flawed way of […]

The BPD and Codependent Relationship Explained.

Are you in a relationship with someone with untreated BPD? Do you suffer from untreated codependency? Do you find that you are holding onto the relationship in hopes it will get better? Do you look forward to a time where your significant other will understand you and see the value you bring to their life? […]

5 Things to do After Being Ghosted.

Ghosting is the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone suddenly and without explanation ultimately withdrawing from all communication. If you’ve recently been ghosted you are left feeling confused, abandoned, and overcome with self-doubt. Ghosting has been around since the beginning of time, however now with technology we are able to know sooner and […]

How to Deal with your Narcissistic Parents as an Adult

Being raised by narcissistic parents is challenging. When we’re children we don’t know what narcissism is, we don’t understand how it works, and we sure don’t realize our parents are narcissistic, we just know they are our parents. Our parents are supposed to take care of us, love us, and be there for us however […]

Am I Suffering from Clinical Depression?

Depression is Real. How to know if you’re dealing with Clinical Depression Are you feeling overwhelmed, hopelessness, anger, and even restlessness, you may be suffering from clinical depression. Depression is a real illness, there are three million new cases a year. Depression can affect anyone, you do not need to have a family history of […]

Did you get lucky or are you unlucky with regards to the family lottery?

For the most part, the majority of us grow up in a household with a mother and father. Some of us have sisters and brothers others of us are the only child. Throughout our childhood, we experience things, are told things, and hold onto things that either set us on to a path of success […]

Make the Most of Your Life.

How do we get the most out of our day-to-day life and truly experience life? One thing that truly gets in our way of experiencing life and propelling ourself forward is FEAR. Fear is false evidence appearing real. In order to get a handle on fear we must become aware when we go into fear […]

What would God do?

Perhaps there’s more to the story, perhaps we are spirit beings on Earth living a life in a human body…What if, go with me on this, what if our memories were erased and we are put here to learn how to be loving and caring spirits in a body…We are on a planet with all […]